So this year has been ridiculous,
I am on job number 4 within 12 months, trying to find some kind of balance between financial demands, parenting demands and study (or the pursuit of passion).
This has been a hard road, what I have learnt is:
- You cannot work nights to pay for daycare while you study in the morning.
no.
No.
NO! - You cannot squeeze a week’s worth of work into three days and not pay for it in energy and productivity and the general happiness of yourself and your family
- You cannot work for friends
- You can make mistakes in work and study and still raise a happy, smart and precious monster.
- ACTUALLY you can be responsive only 30% of the times your child needs and still develop a secure attachment… I have been over achieving!
WOOHOO! - You can support your partner to finish a phd without separation or divorce!
I have a new blog, which is more about the research I am working on, this is to help me to increase my daily writing habit, stay focused and accountable for my productivity. I will pop in here to write about what happens in the rest of my life.
The New blog is here: https://adventuresintranslating.wordpress.com/
This week I am going to attempt night time writing… lets hope for the best.
Next year looks to include a big move to a new city, a three year old, attempting a planned baby, and more study/work madness.